Shared Accomodations: How to Be a Good Roommate

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Shared Accomodations: How to Be a Good Roommate

Staff Writer · Mar 15, 2010

When you are in a situation demanding shared accommodations, there are certain requirements to make it a pleasant living environment. If everyone in the apartment follows these common rules and actions, it stands a good chance of being a peaceful and enjoyable place to live.

Respect Each Other’s Property

This concept was taught to us as small children: if something isn’t yours, don’t take it without permission. Well, that same concept applies in the grown up world also. Just because your roommate left a DVD laying in the living room, doesn’t mean you can borrow it. Respect the other roommate’s property, and don’t help yourself to his or her items.

Pay Half of Everything, On Time

Usually people are sharing an apartment for financial reasons. They want to have a roommate to share the rent and expenses. Be sure to always pay your half of the rent on time. If needed, pay the landlord directly. This way, you are sure your half is getting paid. Always pay half of the utilities (unless you have a predetermined agreement to pay otherwise), and if you share food costs, pay them promptly as well. Money is often the biggest cause of conflict between roommates.

Respect Each Other’s Space

This applies to both personal space and space within the apartment. No matter how good of friends you might be, going into your roommate’s room for any reason is not acceptable. Being respectful of space is a must, as is giving your roommate personal space.

Live By the Golden Rule

This quote pretty much sums it all up: “Do Unto Others The Way You Would Have Do Unto You.” Be nice, polite and respectful to your roommate and his or her belongings. If you are mad, take a break and leave the apartment for some cool down time. Always talk out potential problems or misunderstandings. Letting the problems grow and fester will just lead to a blow-up later. Do your fair share of housekeeping. Alternate turns fixing dinner and taking out the trash. Just be a friend. You don’t have to make your roommate your best friend, but just be courteous and kind. Another phrase learned in childhood applies: “If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all.” Be thoughtful with your words.

By following these suggestions, there is a good chance that the shared apartment will be one that is peaceful and congenial. Roommates will sometimes have to work to keep it a friendly place to live.

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