Tips for Splitting Rent Among Roommates

Monday, June 25, 2007

Dirty dishes, late-night noise, unwanted guests: These roommate conflicts pale in comparison to disputes over paying rent. When you first move in to a new apartment, or if new roommates join you in your current place, you'll have to work out the best way to split the rent among all the tenants. Resolving this issue amicably and openly sets the stage for good roommate relations in the future. Unfortunately, there is no blueprint for how rent should be split. The lease given to you by your landlord will usually indicate the total amount of rent due each month but will not provide guidance on how to split the rent. Here are some typical ways tenants divide rent and some other factors to consider.

An Even Split

This is a simple and easy solution, appropriate when each bedroom is approximately the same size and each tenant is using a comparable portion of the utilities. However, complications can arise if, despite equal-sized bedrooms, one room is perceived as more desirable. An exposed brick wall, the presence or absence of a fire escape, a nicer view, or the amount of daylight a room receives can make one room seem like a much better deal than another of the same size or shape. Be sure to discuss any of these issues before determining how rent is split. You won't want a small issue to grow into a source of simmering resentment.

Split by Size, Shape, and Other Factors

In many apartments, one room is considerably larger or better shaped than the others. If this is the case, or some other quality about a room makes it preferable to the others, you may want to raise the rent share that the room occupant will pay. If all the tenants are new to the apartment, it may be preferable to set the rents for each room before the room occupancy is assigned. This way, the roommates can have an impersonal discussion about the merits of each room and then choose rooms based on their personal finances. If possible, speak with former tenants to get a sense of how rent was split in the past.

Splitting Utilities

If utilities are not included in the rent, tenants will need to decide how to split the cost. Utility bills can be a source of conflict, but they can also provide an opportunity to create a more equitable arrangement among roommates. Before deciding how utilities will factor into the rental arrangement, consider whether the utilities are being used equally. If one roommate has an air conditioner in his room while the others do not, it may not make sense to split the electricity bills equally in the summer. The same thing applies with cable bills: one person may not be able to live without HBO while the other barely watches television. In apartments where rooms are comparable but not of equal quality, some roommates use utility bills to level out inequities. A roommate with a slightly better room may pay the cable bill for the apartment on top of his rent, especially if he uses the TV more than everyone else. In other cases, each roommate is responsible for a separate bill; one person pays the gas bill, another the cable bill and a third the electric bill. Some roommates even agree to a discount for the person who actually administers the bill paying. When several bills arrive each month, someone needs to calculate each person's share, mail the payments and ensure that bills are paid on time. A discount on utilities or some other special incentive may motivate one of your roommates to step up to this task.

Moving into an Already Occupied Apartment

If you are moving into an apartment where the other tenants have been living for a while, you may find that your share of the rent has already been established for you, either by the former tenant or your new roommates. Before you agree to live in the apartment, find out what the apartment's total rent is and calculate what your roommates are paying. Rental increases, broker fees and other costs are often passed on to new tenants while the older tenants pay less. While such arrangements are perfectly legal (and acceptable to the landlord), you may want to make sure your roommates aren’t ripping you off before you move in. It may seem a little awkward, but feel free to ask your roommates what they pay in rent and utilities. If they are hesitant or unwilling to give you this information, you may want to look elsewhere.

Other Things to Consider

No matter what you and your roommates decide about paying the rent, remember that as long as you are on the lease, you are responsible for the rent if your roommates can't or won't pay their share. Look at your lease. It probably includes a clause stating that all tenants are "jointly and severally" liable for the rent. If a roommate leaves unexpectedly, loses his job, or otherwise defaults on the rent, you will have to pay unless someone else can. A rental agreement among roommates, whether it is written as a binding legal document or not, may help define responsibilities and expectations among roommates.

Three 18 yr olds living in a

#82209 On Monday, September 01, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Three 18 yr olds living in a two bedroom apt. Both bedrooms are identical with a living room, dining room and kitchen inbetween. I am a college student, the other two are working. The two working girls insisted on sharing a room. That left me to myself in my room until we find another roommate. I did not insist on having my own room but I offered to pay $625/mo & they would pay $550 each = $1725/mo. Fair? They are now trying to change the plan and they think I should pay $650 & they pay $537.50 ea. which is what they gave me to pay our first month's rent. Please advise!

Hello! I have a stressful

#82024 On Tuesday, August 26, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Hello! I have a stressful situation here. I am moving in to a 3br/2ba house. The master bedroom is double the size than any of the 2 other rooms and has its private bathroom with lots of space. The second largest room is just a few inches bigger than the smaller one, and they both have to share a bathroom. It has been stated/suggested that the master bedroom will pay 50 dolls more than the second largest br and the second largest bedroom will pay 30 dlls more than the smaller one. Am I making sense? Rent is 2,000 total. I see some unfairness in this deal and I really need help on how to solve it! PLEASE help me with your best advice! Thanks in advance!

Asked to pay more for rent

#81583 On Saturday, August 16, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Asked to pay more for rent over the water bill. Hi, I live with my friend. It is her house and I pay a set monthly rent (,1000) to her that includes utilities. My lease states that any increases are on a monthly basis and due to a significnat increases in utilities. My roommate approached me and states that the water bill is much higher then she expected due to having to water her lawn ( i guess she didnt realize how much it would cost her to keep up her yard). She wants to charge me about $100-200 more per month because of this. I dont really think that is fair. Please help. Thanks

My two friends and I are

#81208 On Tuesday, August 05, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

My two friends and I are moving into a 3 bed 2 bath apt. The master bedroom has it's own 3/4 bathroom (meaning shower only) and walk in closet. The other two bedrooms have large closets and share the hall bathroom. Rent for the whole unit is $1100. How much extra should I pay for the master bedroom?

It seems to me an equitable

#81587 On Sunday, August 17, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

It seems to me an equitable split is $350 each for the two smaller rooms and $400 for the master.

How do you split the rent

#81178 On Monday, August 04, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

How do you split the rent price with your roommate that has a 2 almost 3 year old daughter?

I just recently moved in with my roommate about a week and a half ago. She already was living in a 3 bedroom apartment since the month of March which she originally got with the father of her child which she has kicked out for not being responsible. I met her through a mutual friend and was told that she needed a roommate. I have been living by myself for the past 5 years but I was recently was laid off from my job. So I decided that this would be a good opportunity to roommate with someone.

Before I moved in we have agreed for me to pay her $450.00 for rent and utilities included. She also informed me later after considering moving in that I have to increase my pay to $500.00 when I become employed again. Her rent is $900.00 monthly. She also has a separate payment for water, electricity, and the bundle plan for cable, internet, and phone ($99 plan).

Just a few days ago she told me that if the electric bill exceeds more than $5 to $10 of what she usually pays, than I have to pay the difference. I feel that that is not reasonable because there is a whole new person staying there. So I'm trying to figure the percentage amount that I should pay her for the two fixed prices for the rent and cable, and just pay the difference for the water and electric from what she normally pays so we won't have any issues with that. I don't like that fact that she keeps changing something when I originally told her before I moved in that I wanted to ay her one fixed price monthly. It's not a big deal that she went up $50 for rent for when I become employed again, but I just want everything to be within reason. She is creating a lease agreement for me and I want to make sure that the finance split is clear on it. I do not want to pay 50% of the rent even though her daughter is only 2. Her daughter is still part of her space. Se did give up her daughter's bathroom to me and they now share the other.

I moved in with my 'best

#80769 On Saturday, July 19, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I moved in with my 'best friend' and realized it wasn't a good choice. She is now in charge of splitting one of the bills we receive for the summer and we aren't talking. She refuses to show me the bill, saying her SSN is on it (which I called and it isn't). Do I have to pay my part of the bill if she refuses to show me the actual amount. The only reason is because the roomies and I feel she added money onto it last month. How do I go about this?

First of all, even if her

#81052 On Wednesday, July 30, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

First of all, even if her social security number is on the bill (which is almost always never the case) unless its like a student loan payment or something for that manner, and now more and more those are even being removed for identity protection. All she would need to do is either white out her SS number or black it out with a marker, which is sad in the first place, because if she was your so called best friend she should trust you well enough that it shouldnt matter if you know it or not. If the bill is in her name it is her responsibility, if your name is on it then you are responsible as well, and have every right to see the bill in question. If she refuses to show you the bill she is hiding something, and demand to see it, but what ever you do, don't pay her a dime until she shows you the bill.

I need to know how to split

#79731 On Friday, June 13, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I need to know how to split the rent evenly between 3 people in a 2 br. rent is $1550. My husband and I have the bigger room and believe the rent should be split 60/40. Our roommate has the smaller room and insists we split rent 3 ways. She also uses the two largest rooms in the house (dining/living) for private dance lessons 2hrs a day 5 days a week. Show we be taking that into consideration? What is fair, 3-ways or 60/40

I think 60/40 is good. I'm

#81927 On Friday, August 22, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I think 60/40 is good. I'm in the same situation. I live with my sister and her husband. I don't think I should pay half nor do I think we should split it 3 ways. They will share a room but even in that, they have more stuff. They have the bigger room which is the nicer room.

There's three of you. Split

#80863 On Thursday, July 24, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

There's three of you. Split the rent three ways. The two of you have the larger room: why should she pay a little under half the rent?

Then you can work out the separate issue of dance lessons.

60/40 sounds fair to me. One

#80605 On Monday, July 14, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

60/40 sounds fair to me. One way to get a more accurate percentage would be to base it on actual square footage being used.. for example if bed 1 is 25% of the total and bed 2 is 20% the split would be 61.7/38.3. Utilizing the remaining common rooms for dance lessons 5 days a week is significant, especially if it creates noise and prevents others from using those areas. If it does I would say 50/50.

Question about splitting

#79536 On Friday, June 06, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Question about splitting rent:

Can a tenant (he's on the lease) make the roommates pay the rent any way he wants? Ie, the rent is $800/month, the 3 roommates pay $300, $300, and $200 and the person actually on the lease doesn't pay ANYTHING. There is no contract just a verbal agreement of what the rent was, but when my boyfriend agreed to it he did not know he was being cheated and that rent wasn't being split fairly. Also, when someone is told they are to move 07/31 can the person renting to them file a restraining order, therefore making them have to move sooner?

Respectfully, you should

#82134 On Saturday, August 30, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Respectfully, you should move past your jealousy regarding the tenant's monthly cost of rent. While we would all love to pay nothing in rent, he's not cheating you in any way. If you agreed to $300 a month (and assuming that by allowing 4 roommates he is not creating an illegal over-occupancy) and at the time you decided that that price was reasonable to pay for what you were to receive (i.e. right to occupy that particular apartment), knowledge of the total rent changes nothing; the price is still fair. The only change is your feelings of resentment, but as you voluntarily entered into the contract, he has done no wrong against you.

Similarly, your ultimate landlord may have paid off the mortgage on the property, so he also pays nothing. It would be unreasonable to assume that he should rent to the tenant at-cost. He's not running a charity -- the end result of such a policy would be to remove apartments from the market.

Best,
C

One thing that I do is to

#79408 On Thursday, May 29, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

One thing that I do is to have the utilities averaged so you pay the same amount every month. The gas, electric and water do this by looking at the last 12 months' usage, and averaging. That way, the rent and the utilities are fixed each month. Cable is a luxury, so we don't have it, and each person has their own space in the refrigerator; it's taboo to eat food not your own. Works out pretty well. Most of the furniture in the apartment is mine so I factored that in when when splitting the rent.

Stalemate needs

#79185 On Thursday, May 15, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Stalemate needs resolved...

We live in a 4-bedroom townhouse with 4 levels. Rent is not cheap because we live inside the DC beltway, as well as a nice neighborhood within walking distance to the metro. A roommate's long distance girlfriend got a job up and moved after she finished school. Before she moved in, we all talked and thought it would be fair if she paid $300 a month (not even 10% of our rent).

She refuses to pay, and our roommate doesn't think it's fair to charge her rent, when another roommate has his girlfriend over every night.

Any Advice?

I relocated to Seattle and

#79039 On Monday, May 05, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I relocated to Seattle and moved in with a friend. We are currently in a 2 bedroom, 1 1/5 bath. She has the master bedroom (we share bathroom), and the whole apartment is her stuff. I basically have my room, a shelf in the bathroom, and a cabinet in the kitchen. The rent is $1150, she says water is $70-$80, electric $200! (which I found out was a lie), and $150 for cable and internet (I rarely watch TV). She wants me to pay half of everything, however I do not think it is fair. What is reasonable to pay in my situation? I found rooms for rent in the same area for about $550-650 a month... I am not sure what to do!

Half sounds about right.

#79407 On Thursday, May 29, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Half sounds about right. Guess it depends on how much nicer the master is. Maybe a 45/55 split if it's a lot nicer. You should be splitting bills in half for sure. I'm not sure why you are complaining that it is all her furniture. Are you not allowed to sit on the couch? Sounds like a deal to me. Half of 1150 is 575. Seems like the other places would be about the same if you moved - or more! Plus you would have to get your own furniture.

Here's my situation:

#78854 On Saturday, May 03, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Here's my situation:

Moved into a 2 BR apartment for 600/mo. Found the place in a classified. One master bedroom with a bathroom and one guest room and a guest bathroom. Master BR already taken by the guy who has been living here past 2 years. He runs a small company from his bedroom that does computer stuff, so he has 3 desktops and 2 laptops running at all times.

When I moved he said it would be 300/mo since I had my own BR and he considered the guest bathroom mine as well. I told him in that case I would like it if we could switch rooms half-way through the lease because the master BR is nearly twice the size and has a bathroom connected.

When the time comes in November to switch rooms he is totally unwilling and starts telling me he's had that room for 2.5 years and it would be way too much to move all his stuff out.

I told him in that case I was only going to pay 1/3 of the utilities instead of the 1/2 I had been paying. The utilities are in his name since he's been here so long.

Now I think he is trying to drive up how much I pay.
For example, in December when I was home for break, he stayed in the apartment and managed to rack up a $174 electric bill between powering his computer business and heating the place. He also upgraded our internet connection to some 2MB super fast cable that is now costing $64/month. I never asked for it but now he wants me to pay half of that as well.

I don't know what to tell him. He is constantly harassing me for half of the money. He says I owe him over $400 so far this year! He is completely unreasonable and every time I bring up the master bedroom he changes the subject.

I don't know what to do. I'm in hell. I hardly ever a the apartment anymore because I can't stand the constant harassment. The electric bills are still averaging $100 a month and our wonderful $64/mo cable internet I don't use. Please help... :(

I agree with you.

#79962 On Monday, June 23, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I agree with you.

I don't think it's fair that he is keeping the master bedroom, but I think you should have cut your rent in the beginning because it is so much bigger. If it is twice the size, it could've been split 2:1 (pretend your his bedroom is actually 2 bedrooms), so 400 for him, 200 for you. Utilities should be split in half, on principle, no matter what. Both of you live there and both of you consume energy. This might be too late, but I would ask for the 400 to 200 rent split from now on. You could bring up the fact that you have been paying half the entire time, that he should give you back some of your money, but that doesn't seem likely.

Your an ------- about the

#79733 On Friday, June 13, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Your an ------- about the bedroom thing. Stop being a -----, pay your rent or move out.

why do you feel it is your

#79410 On Friday, May 30, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

why do you feel it is your right to have the master bedroom your roomate was there first and is the lease holder both of you are single adults there doesnt seem to be any children involved either way one of you is sacrificing space i think that you are simply thinking about yourself

Umm it is his right. If he

#82291 On Friday, September 05, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Umm it is his right. If he has been paying half the rent and his room is smaller then it is not unreasonable for him to want to use the big room for half the time he is there. Just because someone has 'been there longer' doesn't mean anything. Bigger room = Bigger price. End of story. Only children feel entitled because they have 'been there longer' so, grow up.

I am a single mother of 2

#78570 On Monday, April 14, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I am a single mother of 2 (ages 9 and 11) and am plannning to move into a 4 bedroom house with my best friend. she has no kids but has 2 small dogs. the rent is $2,250.00 I am trying ot figure out how we should splitt the rent. I have not discussed $ arrangments with her. but she knows that I would like it if both of my kids each have their own room. She also knows that I am willing ot pay more money than her since we will have 3 rooms. The most I can afford right now is about$1,300.00 since i have many more expenses that she does. This means she would be paying $950.00. Does that sound fair to offer? Would it be too much to then also ask that I get the Master bedroom? I plan to have my kids share thius bathroom with me and not the guest bathroom. I love my friend and don't want to be unfair... it is just a bit tuffer for me since I have child care expensess, car, needs for my kids... We will be splitting the utilities in 1/2. i spend most of my time at work or at my kids sport activities. Just need someone's outside opinion.

Offer her the Master

#78804 On Wednesday, April 30, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Offer her the Master Bedroom. This way she will have her own private bathroom, and you and your children could share the other bathroom.... Also a plus for you because your children wont be trapsing through your room, waking you up, to use the restroom 10 times in the middle of the night!

Need advice...we live in a 3

#78281 On Thursday, March 27, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Need advice...we live in a 3 bedroom house and it was 3 of us. All rooms are different sizes from small, medium and large. Now my roommate's girlfriend is pregnant and he decides to move her in with him in his room and split his portion of the rent with her. He is in the medium sized room.
The questions is should they be paying extra? Because there will be a whole new person using the house. We will share the utilities 4 ways, the issue is only rent. Please Advise.
Thanks

Hmm.. Fun. First, a few

#78621 On Thursday, April 17, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Hmm.. Fun. First, a few questions.... Are all 3 of you (the original 3) on the lease? He shouldn't be able to move someone in without getting it approved by you and your other roommate, but I suppose it also depends on if you have some sort of a contract or arrangement amongst yourselves.

I do think it is right to split the utilities 4 ways, but adding an extra person is going to cut into everyone's common space (ie living room, kitchen, bathroom, laundry, storage etc). I think that they should have to pay a certain amount extra since it is another person, even though they're sharing a room. Maybe not as much as a full roommate's share, but enough to cover the inconvenience of having an extra person in the house.

But that's just my opinion. Hope you figure everything out! Good luck!

Yes they should pay their

#78441 On Monday, April 07, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Yes they should pay their share. And be very careful in this situation because once she moves in if there is any conflict, YOU are the one who will have to move out!

You can't kick out pregnant women or babies onto the street.

Overall, if she moves in I think it's a matter of time before you'll be moving out.

MY ROOMATE JUST SUCKS!!!

#78083 On Wednesday, March 12, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

MY ROOMATE JUST SUCKS!!! Simple as that!

I moved into an apartment

#77672 On Wednesday, February 13, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I moved into an apartment with a guy in August for 600 a mth for my room, a little while after i discovered that the rent for apartment is 1025.00, and i am also still splitting utilities. now he picks a fight ever so often and i discovered that he has put the room back out there asking for 650 a mth rent + utilities - what can i do about this whole situation?

are you in a lease? If so

#78279 On Thursday, March 27, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

are you in a lease? If so there is nothing he can do about it, enless hes the landlord. But even then he is required by state law to give you "proper notice". About the price, your kinda stuck, thats what you agreed to when you moved in. Take it as a lesson learned and next time use it as a negoation platform. Ask to see the last 3 months of all bills that you will be required to pay and make sure your NOT getting the short end of the stick. Remember to take the room you will be occupying into consideration, is it the biggest, smallest, have a walk in closet? It may be smart to consider the household duties as well, if your clean and there not, if you cook and they don't. Don't sell ourself short, get the most for your money!

my roommate has a daughter

#76307 On Saturday, January 12, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

my roommate has a daughter who is 13 -- she was 10 when we moved in herre -- she says that since her daughter is not employed I should be paying half of all the bills - i say that it is her responsibility to support her daughter -- for the first three years we were here her daughter had the largest room - and I now have and have always had the smallest -- it is a reoccuring argument whenever she gets mad at me -- any thoughts?

It is not your daughter you

#77628 On Monday, February 11, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

It is not your daughter you SHOULD NOT have to pay for her. That would be absolutely ridiculous. Also, your roommate has no right to change your rent out of nowhere because she doesn't want to pay as much (until the end of your lease or sublet anyway). honest opinion - you need to find an apartment with someone more responsible and reliable. In my apartment we have different sized rooms and pay accordingly, mine is more than the smallest and less than the biggest. I suppose it comes down to your agreement. If you are on the lease it is a joint decision, if you are subletting she can not change your agreement until the end, and if there is no official agreement... you have nothing to fall back on exceot that it would be wrong and irresponsible to make you pay for her daughter. She is not your responsibility. Good luck!

are there any GOOD roommate

#76230 On Thursday, January 10, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

are there any GOOD roommate stories???

I was in a sticky situation

#75951 On Thursday, December 27, 2007 Guest (not verified) said,

I was in a sticky situation back in 1990 with a former roomate. He was alright and we each split the rent and other bills, but then he let this 18-year-old punk in that stole my food, dirtied dishes, and even schtuped a girl in my bed. Then he wanted to fight me. I kicked him to the curb and found out that he was stealing my socks as well, and had a warrant out for his arrest. We got kicked out for keeping this guy, and I vowed I'd never have a roomate again unless it was a spouse. My wife and I married in 1994, and she's been the best roomate I've ever had.
One of her friends wanted to stay with us, and this included her husband. I said no, and this was a good thing. This guy divorced our friend and ran up a $600 phone bill. I might have been stuck with this as well. When in doubt, don't move in, or let them move in.

i am a solo lease holder and

#75536 On Sunday, December 09, 2007 Guest (not verified) said,

i am a solo lease holder and i share a 3 bedroom apartment with 2 people. i have given them thirty days to leave, and they have been threatening me with laywers and damaging some things in my apartment while im not there. they said they had left checks for this month but i didnt see any. this could be in retaliation for me asking them to leave, where they suddenly decided to take the checks back and get even by screwing me over financially. the security deposit i gave to the landlord was split evenly between me and two other people at the beginning of the lease. when one person moves out they get their security deposit back from me (granted they pay their share and didnt damage anything) and the new person pays them the money to take their place. essecencially when you move in im taking that money for the same reason my landlord does, and by giving it to me, this is my backup if you dont pay me rent. if they (my roomates now) end up not paying me for time when they or their things were still occupying the rooms in the apartment do i have a right to keep this "security" money to cover rent they did not pay me? if i did keep this security deposit because of non payment of rent would they be able to come after me for it or what are the chances a judge would make a ruling in their favor? i have email proof of harassment/threats, of when i agreed to give them 30 days notice, pictures of broken things, correspondence of them telling me they are leaving rent for me for this month, bank statements that i can use to prove i have not deposited any checks from them.

what does your contract with

#75663 On Monday, December 17, 2007 Guest (not verified) said,

what does your contract with your roommates say? if you don't have a written contract with your roomies (not your lease contract, but an actual written contract between yourselves) that says specifically that THEY have paid YOU a security deposit for reasons a, b and c (damages, unpaid rent, etc.), you're going to have a lot of trouble proving that you have the right to keep their security deposits.

if you do have a written contract with your roommates, the following applies:
an apartment manager who doesn't receive all of the rent is not required to return the security deposit in full because the tenant reneged on their side of the written contract. you are essentially acting as a "broker" for the apartment, so this applies, as long as you have a written contract with the people you lived with.

I moved out of my apartment

#75309 On Wednesday, November 28, 2007 Guest (not verified) said,

I moved out of my apartment a month ago with much advanced notice on my two roommates. The lease is up in August and it is only November. I need to know if I am responsible for the utilities even though I have vacated the property.

A few questions... Are you

#78620 On Thursday, April 17, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

A few questions... Are you on the lease? Did you pay a damage deposit or utility deposit? How much advance notice did you give before you moved out? If you gave at LEAST 30 days notice, you should be clear of any financial responsibility. That should have given them some time to try to find a replacement or for you to find a replacement. As long as you paid all of your bills and rent up until you moved out and didn't do any damage, they can't really do much. I suppose if you were financially able and wanted to be a nice guy, you could pay an extra month or two for your utilities and maybe half of your regular rent, just to help them out a little.

Hope this helps. Good luck!

Your absence is actually

#75396 On Saturday, December 01, 2007 Guest (not verified) said,

Your absence is actually lowering the cost of some utilities, such as electricity and heating. With that in mind, your former roommates would have some nerve charging you for a portion of their now lowered utilities. By the same token, flat utility fees, such as sewer and trash, should be shared by those who are using the services, not those who are gone.

I disagree with the response

#76297 On Saturday, January 12, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I disagree with the response above. The person leaving early is leaving a financial burden on the other roommates. This person should be responsible for their share of the utilities until the lease ends or else help the roommates find an agreeable person to sublet and help make up for the financial burden left upon the roommates. Heating costs don't change that drastically when one person is gone. The use for refridgerators, lights and heating costs stay the same. A few less showers maybe. If anything, this person would have some nerve to get off scott free.

I do not agree that the

#78805 On Wednesday, April 30, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I do not agree that the person who left should be held responsible for UTILITIES that they do not incure. HOWEVER, normal utilities, such as gas and electric, are payed AFTER they are incured, so the person who has left is still responsible for their portion of the utilities they incured prior to leaving. For example: one moved out on the 30 of April, but the gas bill doesn't come until May 5th for the period of April 1st to April 30th, the bill should be split because the room mate WAS still living there for that period.

absolutly responsable. If

#78280 On Thursday, March 27, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

absolutly responsable. If your in a lease with your roomates and agreed to be financially responsable untill August you should be held to that. I say if there only asking for your portion of the utilities, your getting off easy. If you were my roomate, Id still be collecting your portion of the rent on top of the utilities. Untill a new "qualified" roomate was found to replace your monitary support of the bills.

lived in Bay Ridge Brooklyn

#74820 On Friday, November 16, 2007 Guest (not verified) said,

lived in Bay Ridge Brooklyn one year. had to work in Lutheran Medical Center north of there. Wiseguy landlord gave me a cheap illegal "sublet." tell the lil ole ladies youre my cousin kinda deal.

THEN he started moving stuff in and middle of the year HE moved in on me. Gave me a discount but had to be out when he was kicking with his gf. Middle aged divorced guy he knew better.

Never had a landlord or lady who was not a total s**thead. they just do not get it

A little more advice - watch

#74285 On Wednesday, November 07, 2007 Guest (not verified) said,

A little more advice - watch out for couples. Discuss boyfriend/girlfriend visits before hand. If they're going to be staying every night, they need to help out on rent. I lived in a 2br and both of us has significant others. It got messy because we both wanted them over all of the time. Eventually, my b/f started paying a 1/3 of the rent, and I told her if her b/f was staying all the time we should all pay a 1/4 and put them on the lease. They started living at his place, and I only had to see her spoiled, ugly face once a week after that. It wasn't a good situation, discuss significant others BEFORE you move in

This can be a touchy

#78316 On Friday, March 28, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

This can be a touchy subject.. I feel RENT should be split by room not necessarily by person. My roomate and I split 1200$ rent our rooms are about same size so its an even split im ok w/ it. however my GF stays over quite a bit. so what I do to make up for it is instead of splitting utilities by 2 we split by 3, since she's there using up electricity as well. ..

I agree I made the biggest

#75537 On Monday, December 10, 2007 Guest (not verified) said,

I agree I made the biggest mistake of my life. By having my brothers fiance move in. Things are horrible on my end. My advice to anyone just live on your own. Its simply not worth it living with anyone. It can get ugly tiring especially if you're living with someone. Who doesnt like to clean behind themselves. I found this out the hard way.

Before moving in - me, and

#73904 On Thursday, October 11, 2007 Guest (not verified) said,

Before moving in - me, and my two roommates decided everything would be split 3 ways. Everything. The one roommate pays for the other roommate's portions since she doesn't have money right now - that was their choice and now resposibility. And one day, I find out they decided to split the cable bill in half! I question the one roommate whose bills are being payed for by the other's. She said since she doesn't use it "as much", she left it to be split between me and the other roommate. SHE LEFT IT? She doesn't even pay any bills, how come SHE has a say?? I'm obviously upset because 1) We never discussed this. THEY made the decision, assuming I wouldn't care and that it was fair. And 2) If she uses it AT ALL "she" should be paying some if not her third. Right??

And here's another thing -- for a while, the one who doesn't pay, cooks dinner bought by the other and we'd all eat dinner together. I would still always ask before grabbing a plate, but they insisted every time. Then all of sudden, my one roommate gets notices for the loans she has to pay off and suddenly I'm not eating dinner with them anymore. Which I didn't expect when first moving in anyway - But my problem with this is why does the other roommate get to have the dinner when she is paying absolutely NOTHING and I am actually helping with all the bills and definitely paying more than I should for the Cable? Oh and they can sit there and have their dinner while drinking beverages I BUY. You'd think I could at least have leftovers, no?

But I guess part of this is partially my own fault for not demanding to see the bills. I was just recently going through my checkbook thinking "Why is Cable so much?" Before I guess I blew it off because we had ordered two or three extra channels, but no - that wouldn't put on $40+ dollars.

Can't wait until my sister moves up here - we may be moving in together - you can be up front all you want with family. :) Her and her roommates apparently put the bills up on the fridge so that everyone can see it as they should. I'm new to this though, and just figured my best friend wouldn't do such a thing knowing I didn't have the kind of money she does.

It sounds like you're in

#74283 On Wednesday, November 07, 2007 Guest (not verified) said,

It sounds like you're in roommate hell. I sympathize with you. Don't worry, living will be easier once you move out.

Hey guys, I had a roommate

#73808 On Thursday, October 04, 2007 Guest (not verified) said,

Hey guys, I had a roommate that my mom found for me from s newspaper ad, and I moved in with her in Jan. 2007. It was ok for three weeks until I started seeing men's clothing everyhere and more funriture. I asked her what was happening and hse said she decided that weekend that her boyfriend was moving in with her and that he already gave his apaprtment a 30 day notice. I was shocked, and even more shocked when they told me they wanted to move to a bigger place. I had just moved in with her, thinking I was going to live there with just my female roommate. I agreed to move out to a bigger place with them, and even helped find an apartment that suited their budget. In the first apt. I paid 500.00 a month in rent, and before the move the (rude and confrontational boyfriend) told me that becasue I am moving with them, they are going to keep my rent the same, but that in the event that I move out, they will charge the new person 600.00 I have been living at the new place for 6 months with them and the other day out of nowhere, he says he wnat me to pay 100.00 more, he wants me to pay the 600.00 a month. I am never home (I am a senior in college and single mom, we are litereally never home), all thier furniture is in the living room, you would never know I live there except that I sppe and wake up and shower there, and he said he raised the rent becasue he want it more fair for them. I am on the lease. DO I have any rights? Can I refuse to pay this increase? Please help!!! he keeps calling my phone and asking me to agree to the increase.

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