Top 3 Ways to Reduce Noise in Your Apartment

Monday, November 27, 2006

Noisy neighbors are a nuisance to us all. Sometimes they can be convinced to calm down; sometimes not. Beyond working with your neighbors, landlord, and perhaps even the police in extreme cases, you can take some steps to make your apartment a less noisy place.

Carpeting and rugs

Carpet can do a surprisingly good job of absorbing sound in the home. If your apartment isn’t already carpeted, consider asking your landlord about the possibility of adding carpeting to a room in your unit. If this isn’t an option, you can still make a big impact on the noise level with area rugs. The more rugs you have and the larger they are, the more they’ll help reduce noise by absorbing sound instead of reflecting it off hard surfaces. Cushier rugs can have a greater noise-absorbing effect, so if you’re into shag rugs, you’re in luck.

Wall hangings and curtains

So you’ve got your floor taken care of, but what about the walls? Those are pretty big and barren, too. No worries, though—just a few wall hangings or tapestries can make a big difference when it comes to reducing the amount of noise in your apartment, while adding a ton of style at the same time. Curtains or drapes can also help reduce noise, whether they’re placed over windows or across open spaces in the apartment. This can help divide up a large room and absorb noise at the same time.

Sound-absorbing panels

There are many technologically advanced ways to absorb sound. Most were designed for office, music, or industrial use and may not be suitable for the home, but some can be modified to fit your needs. Fabric-covered panels are one option, or consider covering noise-reducing barriers with your own fabrics, wall hangings, or curtains.

Focus your anti-noise efforts on the loudest area of your apartment—if your downstairs neighbors are noisy, rugs may be your best bet. If it’s the neighbors on one side, cover up that wall with some insulating items and fabric. If your upstairs neighbors are the issue, don’t hesitate to drape fabric from the ceiling. There’s no limit to what you can do to address noise issues within your apartment, and you’ll be surprised by how effective just a few simple steps can be in combating noise.

Something needs to be done

#83434 On Tuesday, October 14, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Something needs to be done about the quality of insulation in some of these apartment complexes. My apartment is not cheap, but the walls and floors might as well be made of balsa wood and paper towels. I can hear everything anyone does and I'm positive thaey can hear me as well. It feels like I have no privacy. I get paranoid even trying to use the bathroom for fear of making some offensive noise.

The lady downstairs from me is completely insane and yells constantly when I attempt to walk around my apartment (in bare feet no less). I've started drinking in the evenings after work just to dull my senses and relax. I can't afford to move, so I figure apartment life will eventually kill me in one form or another.

If these complexes are "up to code" then the code needs a serious revision.

our neighbours both below

#82833 On Friday, September 26, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

our neighbours both below us & beside us blare their music. we both end up getting very bad headaches from them. we can`t afford to move . we are both on disability. our land lord is never around when you need her.

The comments here are both

#83111 On Tuesday, October 07, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

The comments here are both comforting & depressing. I ,too, live in a "sandwich" apartment. I can hear
everything from the apartments above & below me.
But, I am sure they hear me too & I feel sorry them as I have to get up @ 3am to go to work.
Our landlady has ripped up all the carpeting and it is all hardwood floors. Sure they look good but these
buildings were designed to be carpeted. There is no insulation between the floors just wood & a single sheet of drywall. I can hear conversations as though people are sitting right next to me. I hear people
using the toilet,snoring,chopping veggies,having sex,
sneezing,walking,dropping all sorts of objects,cats walking about,huge-ugly-heavy wooden closets opening & closing w/o relent, tvs,stereos, and on and on. I am not perfect but I believe I am as considerate as I can be. My floors are carpeted, I never wear shoes in the apt., I try to keep the tv low,I never let my door SLAM shut,I shower @ night so as not to disturb my neighbors in the am. with the worlds loudest water pipes.Even with all this I am sure my neighbors
can hear me walking around.The floors SQUEAK & SQUAWK
so bad it drives ME crazy in my own apt.
Mu landlady refuses to believe that noise is a problem.Why should she care ? She figures you will just have to move or, if you are one of the less fortunate who cannot afford to move, you will just have to put up with it. There is a clause in the lease that requires 80% of the apt. be carpeted.
Not only does she not enforce it, she has now taken the % out of the lease so you can meet the requirement with a throw rug in the kitchen.They don't care at all about your comfort.There will always be someone to rent the places.
I feel for everyone out there.

This seems to be a place to

#82785 On Wednesday, September 24, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

This seems to be a place to vent, so I will do. My situation is a bit different. I live upstairs with my wife. We have a young couple that lives downstairs. We own our condo and so do they. We had our first incident about a year ago when our painters spilled a bit of paint in our balcony and onto theirs. The guy came upstairs not even saying hello first and began to say we were irresponsible and so forth. I cut him off and explained that we had contractors and had no idea what happened. I apologized, offered to pay for any damaged items and paid for the painting of his entire balcony which made it look better. I also gave them a nice bottle of wine for the inconvenience. We observe all noise rules and have had two parties on a Saturday in which we warned them about. No one complained and our parties were over by midnight.

The other day I had to wake up at 5AM. I decided to not rely on foreign oil so much and bike to work. At those hours, I tip-toed around so to not wake my wife. I got everything ready and unfortunately, my backpack fell from the chair. Oh well, no biggie. As I am walking down the stairs slowly, I hear a door open and then, "Fuck that was loud! That shit resonates down here..." It was my - oh how should I put this - uneducated downstairs neighbor. I was shocked. I had always been cordial and polite to him and he seemed to just explode. I looked at him, laughed and said sorry. That day I logged a complaint with our HOA and told them he was offensive and threatening. I really wanted to pound on his small brained head, but I consider myself sort of refined. I now have no regards as to what noise I make. I just make sure it is between the allowed hours.

I've lived downstairs. I know that it is inevitable you will hear noises. It's not the tenants fault, it is the fault of constructors cutting corners. The American way. I've lived oversees in apartments and they were either made of brick walls or real wood. Let me tell you, we paid a pretty penny for our condo so we can live upstairs in peace. I even warned them before they bought that the condos downstairs were horrible. But they were cheap which is why they bought it. I love where we live and like (most of) our neighbors. Had Mr. Neanderthal left a nice note on our door or come upstairs later that day and politely ask to keep the noise down because he can't sleep, I wouldn't have also taken up jump rope!

Moral of the story: You want complete quietness? Go live in space.

I live in a downstairs

#82599 On Monday, September 15, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I live in a downstairs apartment and the people above me let their kids run and jump ALL day long. They don't seem to care. We have tapped on the ceiling several times to 'hint, hint' that they are making too much noise, but that never stops them. Even the parents are constantly thumping on the floor and banging things around and dropping things and moving furniture around. And the crazy thing is they seem to 'follow' us from room to room. If we are in the bathroom, they are making noise in there. If we go in a bedroom, there they are! In the kitchen? Banging and running and jumping. Why isn't there a rule one can't do that? It is so rediculous.I think that is so rude. I want to go say something but I know the man will say, "I'm sorry, my boys are bad". But that will be all. He will continue to let them jump and run and jump some more!!! I swear they never sit down. On the go CONSTANTLY!

Talk to landlord.If I was

#82688 On Friday, September 19, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Talk to landlord.If I was renting,I would just move out.I would also NEVER live in a downstairs unit.People are assholes nowadays and you are limiting your chances for a peaceful life if you live downstairs.

OK so I need help. I just

#82483 On Thursday, September 11, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

OK so I need help. I just moved into an apartment and my neighbor complain to management about my dog barking. Ok so I bought a citronella collar and my dog has stopped barking. When I am home I can guarantee the dog does not bark when I am away I trust the collar and other neighbors have verified this. However I just go another complaint. The smae neighbor complained the the dog barked all day yesterday when I was home ALLL DAY. I dint leave once because my daughter is sick. What do I do?

The question is why? why?

#82424 On Wednesday, September 10, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

The question is why? why? why? are freaking people like they are, being inconsiderate to their neighbors, no brains what so ever, no common sense, are they really stupid, no I mean really stupid, and most of all attention deprived? Nobody wants to hear your stupid music. I feel sorry for all of us. There was this one person that once told me she hated apartments. At the time I was living in an upstairs apartment and didn't have any issues. So I thought she was a little out there. About 4yrs ago I realized what she meant. I now hate apartments! We live downstairs and our neighbor above loves to stomp her fat-ass everytime she's home. Literally everytime she is HOME! I have no idea why she has to make so much noise with the walls also. I ask myself how can one yes ONE person make so much freaking noise! The worst neighbor I have ever had and seen in my entire life. I hate to tell everyone this but the only option I am concluding is to move. I wanted to a long time ago but financialy I wasn't there just yet. I have 5 freaking long months left and I am just hanging in there. Can you say town house with nobody upstairs and/or renting a house? I cannot wait! My plan for some payback is to get a used old mini-stereo and blast it the day I leave. So that when the noise maker comes down to tell me it's too loud. Sorry but nobody lives there any longer biotch!, ha ha ha!! Now you know how it feels! I strongly suggest everyone do this when they do move. It'll make you feel better and make these people remember so may be next time they can get it through their no brain skull what they did. I am going to also type up a letter and leave it hanging and attention it to the landlord "this is what I had to put up with". But I do feel everyones pain about the noise. I'm a really really patient person myself but I can understand when your patients is limited. Like I said again you gotta move(not to another apartment but something with a lot less noise, it's worth it paying the extra for a stress free home and it will do wonders for your health) and for now just buy some ear plugs which are the best approach if your waiting for your lease to end like I am. I wish you all luck! Everyone needs to come back on here every now and then and vent because it does help. Just to let everyone know you are not alone in the crappy noisy neighbor world. It's a long shot but everyone please try to at least "have a good night".

DUMB AND DUMBER is what I

#81967 On Sunday, August 24, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

DUMB AND DUMBER is what I live under..I live under a woman and her bastard son(who's 20).She works and he can't seem to stand upright that long. When he's not sleeping all day,he's blasting his thump,thump crap and screaming. I don't care what color you are you piss me off and I call you everything under the sun. Management is a joke, they have sent them 3 warning notices but I guess she can't read english or never got them. You think someone who's 20 was taught to respect people and knows how to put down the toilet seat which he does not. Since we have paper thin floors what does a bastard need with 50 bags,hmmm can you so drug drealer. How many people are afraid of the word"cops"?? If you like to go whale watching and monkey watching come on over here, you will see both.She should of stayed off her back when she was 13 and I wouldn't have to put up with her bastard boy now!!!!!!!

I feel a little better after

#81319 On Saturday, August 09, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I feel a little better after reading so many of these comments and realizing I wasn't the only person having problems. I spent 8 years in one downstairs apt. with a revolving door of various tenants in the apartment above me. Most were guys (I'm an older female) and I was constantly being woke up by the heavy walking around the apartment in the wee hours of the morning. Add to that the constant noise from overly loud music and TV's. I finally reached a point where I could financially afford more rent and moved to what i thought was an ideal apartment. No such luck...the woman who lived above me moved out of state and a guy moved in. So I'm back to square one. I leave early in the morning to catch a bus to work, so I try very hard to avoid disturbing my neighbors with my TV ( volume kept low to catch news and weather), my hairdryer (5 min. max) or with shutting doors (no slamming). My feeling is that any noise that escapes an apartment and disturbs others is an infringement on quality of life...but it seems that good manners and any consideration for others has gone by the wayside. I'm already making plans to start looking for a new apartment in the spring (my lease is up in Feb.). How tiresome!

Due to the housing bubble, I

#81041 On Wednesday, July 30, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Due to the housing bubble, I have been forced to rent apartments since graduating college in 2002. I have lived in many different complexes in several states, and I can tell you, nothing blocks noise and the landlords do not care. Currently, every day it is a living hell with my neighbors downstairs. It was supposed to be a single man with partial custody of two very young boys, however, shortly after he moved in he got a loudmouth lady live-in. All she seems to do is mouth-off on the telephone and watch TV all day. She is always around - never seems to go anywhere. And of course the TV is high up on a case near their ceiling (which is only 7 feet), right underneath the head of my bed. It couldn't be in a worse spot. Even more - she is a raging insomniac and watches TV at all hours. During the past eight or nine months, I have gotten way more than my fair share of sleepless nights. I have a long commute and I am scared I will fall asleep behind the wheel. My work performance has suffered greatly. And what can I do about this? There are no good options.

I've complained to the landlord but all I get is placated. All talk and no action. Like I said, I've lived in many apartments and unfortunatly this isn't the first time I've been bothered by noise - however, this is the worst. So I'm not crazy about moving to another apartment complex. Buying a house is not an option either unless I want to commit financial suicide by paying too much for a crapshack that will depreciate in value IF I can even sell it when the time comes. There is really no way out - it is such a hopeless situation.

how do you go on when every

#80249 On Friday, July 04, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

how do you go on when every single night your kept awake by the "2 guys" and their "2" girlfriends(who dont live there) walking back and forth back and forth well into 4 am. We are constantly woke up every night between 11pm and 4 am and told by mgmt that they have carpet through out but it seems that the only time they heel walk is when its above our head while we are trying to sleep. Why do we deserve to have our lives turn to hell because someone else cant respect that others dont keep their schedule

oh my God i am dealing with

#82401 On Tuesday, September 09, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

oh my God i am dealing with the same shit oh my God u hitted right on the nail this guy that lives over my head is suppose to be the only one on the lease however he got his girlfriend his dam baby which they just had is getting bigger and louder by the minute he works and his girlfriend pase the floor day in and day out no job the first and never leaves the bedroom thats right over my head!! his brother and his girlfriend are hard walkers as well, remind you they are not on the lease so i am back and forth in bedrooms so i can get some sleep,(i have a 2 bedroom apartment)i complained to the landlord told them they had to leave because they are not on the lease however they moved for a minute but the girl with the kid figures everything is cool down now, so now she moves back in.pleeeeese i am going to keep complaining until they move, i have been here 9 years and they have been there about 2 years i am not about to let them run me out of my apartment!!!

I live in a small apartment

#80218 On Thursday, July 03, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I live in a small apartment building next door to a duplex with more apartments behind it. Apparently, considering the graffiti in our parking lot, we live right next door to a group of gang members. My husband and I are terrified because we have two very small children. Here lately we've been having problems with the loud music they play at night until 4am usually, the bottle rocket shooting, the marijuana smoking, and now the graffiti right in front of our apartment. The cops are here almost every other night, and still nothing changes. They look like very young adults, maybe even minors. However, I never know what to expect when I walk outside my door. My husband works overnight shifts, so needless to say, I am very paranoid and have lots of sleepless nights. We are contacting our landlord tomorrow to give them a heads-up on this problem. We feel unsafe and hope to transfer our lease to a safe property. We are still worried that they may decline, as we've had problems with our neighbors before and the only answer we received was to find someone to move in to our apartment and relieve us of the remaining rental payments. I would imagine this being a safety issue, with young children involved, they'd be more than happy to grant our wishes. We are really hoping for the best. My family is my life and I am very concerned.

I used to live in a

#79781 On Sunday, June 15, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I used to live in a warehouse loft with stone floors, but drywall and brick for the walls.
My nextdoor neighbor had a business that brought in very loud, cussing, partying thugs. On the weekends, I couldn't even hear myself because of the loud music and yelling blasting through my unit!
I finally went next door and talked to the guy and his girlfriend, nicely, and explained the problem. He said he was sorry and that if it ever got too loud to knock on the wall and he'd tone it down.
Well...the next weekend, it got loud again, I knocked, banged, and nobody heard me. I knocked on the door, the noise just continued.
So, I emailed the guy asking him what happened to our agreement? He ignored the email. I knew the email address was good because we'd corresponded that way before.
Then he started keeping up noise until about 2 in the morning. I had to be up by 6am to start my journey to work each day.
In all this - management would express concern, but wouldn't do anything about it because they liked him and he paid his rent.
So - whenever he kept me awake until two, I'd get up at 6am and turn my stereo on full volume with the speaker facing the wall. I knew his bed was right there. If I couldn't sleep, neither would he!
About a month later, he moved. :>

I don't recommend this, but it was my only solution. My last resort. I'm normally a very quiet person and rarely even listen to my radio - let alone blast it. It was hard doing that to him, but I had no other choice. The manager would just say, "call the police", but the police would never answer the calls!

I live in a apartment

#79725 On Friday, June 13, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I live in a apartment complex with a parent who I am helping recover from knee replacement the nieghbors play loud music at 11 am to 3 am at nighte and hit the wall on purpuse. One side the woman is vicious she fo llows me and my mother when I go in the bathroom and sLams the cabnient doors and plays her music with the base up while I am in the shower. I know have ringing in my ears the woman and her husband are young in there twentys with a child. We havenot done anything in a ill manner to these people. We have complained the rental manager has spoken with them and gave warnings but the warnings were taken away I think by the womans mother who paints sre u the picture that her daughter is being fasely accused we are picking on her. The managers hands are tied and doesn't want to do anything untill they see proof but I have called the manager when they play the loud music but the manager announces them selves at our door so anyone with a ounce of sense would straighten up when they see the rental manager at your door then as soon as they leave they start up worse actually I have had them knock on the wall 2 minutes after the rental manager left when i called up the noise. I am completely at lost my mother is ill and doesn't want to deal with it and says that i should ignore it but it is effecting my health i get no rest because constant music playing morning and night and i can't even use the bathroom in peace with harrasment from them I am rest broken and dealing hearing problems. know they have gotten clever not to play there music or knock on the wall whem my mom is in the bathroom which makes it look like i am hearing things. She is angry with me when i bring this up. Unfornately I am saving up for a place I am a college senior so I am stuck there. I looking for suggestions.

you are not giving any info

#80659 On Thursday, July 17, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

you are not giving any info about the apartment layout . give more info.

I manage apartments and I

#79963 On Monday, June 23, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I manage apartments and I deal with these matters all the time. I live in a bottom floor apartment and have dealt with the problem myself. I strongly recommend you speak to your Moms doctor and explain what the problem is and then request managment to move you to a different apartment. Managment needs to step in and do something to remedy the problem. You have the right to a quiet enviroment and it is the law. Did you know you can actually take your neigboors to court? well you can just make sure you call the police when they are noisy and always get copies of reports you just let them know when you call that they are disturbing the peace. Also, don't give up keep complaining to managment and make sure you get copies of those reports as well.. good luck!

you say you manage

#80803 On Sunday, July 20, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

you say you manage apartments...i'd like your opinion on something..is it normal for managers to have the attitude that because so many more people are awake nights these days that night noise is acceptable to a degree?? my manager has this attitude.my neighbors are spuratically noisy through the night,waking me up about 7 or 8 ,sometimes 12 times a night(loud yelling and laughing and so on as though they're watching a football game)/.i often times now wind up waking up that 3rd time and not being able to fall asleep again. my manager tends to react to my complaints with this notion that i "have to except SOME noise,as alot people work nights these days." is this a common attitude for for a manager to have these days??

My husband and I recently

#79679 On Wednesday, June 11, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

My husband and I recently rented a downstairs two bedroom apartment. We live in Hawaii and things are slightly different than what I am use to in other states I have lived in. There are very few traditional rental apartments here. Most times they LOOK like what you would consider a rental complex but each unit is owned separately.

Recently we had new neighbors move into the unit above us (the unit is not owned by our land lord. ) At first it was only a man and a toddler. Well I understand that toddlers are still learning how to walk and being that the apartment above us has that lamanet hardwood flooring, we knew we would hear -some- noise from the little guy walking around.

About a week or two later we found out that his fiance and the rest of her children would be arriving in a few days. Since then it almost feels as if the ceiling will cave in on top of us.

My husband works a night shift and is in the military. Generally speaking he is home no later than 4 am. Now of course MOST normal people are asleep at this time so we go to great pains to remain as quiet as possible. Headphones for music, low volume on tv watching, ect. We -try- to be considerate to those around us and expect a little in return.

When we found out about the new people coming into the apartment above us, we very politely explained our schedule to the guy and he said they would do their very best to be quiet. I did not expect that there would be FOUR children all under the age of ten and TWO adults living above us. In the exact same sized apartment no less. If we do the math that is three bodies to a bedroom, or four children in a small second bedroom and two adults in the master bedroom. Hmmm...

I have said I will give them until the end of the month to get their schedule situated and for them to settle down but I do not think I will make it that long having to listen to that day in and day out. I realize that there is little we can do between certain hours of the day (which we are usually trying to sleep through the incessant noise above us) but there comes a point where it is just too much.

I have been trying very hard to find out what the occupancy laws for the state of Hawaii are and have come up short at every turn. I don't want to put children out on the streets but at the same time we are law abiding people, why should we get screwed over?

I have very politely, calmly and nicely told them several times that we can hear their stomping -and- the loud screaming of the adults at the small children (like, go do this go do that, instead of getting up off their rear ends and actually parenting).

The last people who lived there before them we -never- heard. They were home a lot but we never had a problem with noise. Heck we hardly knew they were home unless we saw them and I know that the owner of the unit didn't just put in the hardwood floors either. I intend to contact my landlord to see what steps we can take as I have a feeling they are breaking the law by having so many people in that apartment and I suspect that not all of them are even on the lease to begin with.

So I feel everyones pain with the noise issue. There are -some- things you just have to suck up and deal with but when the quality of life for you is being diminished beyond reasonable circumstances, then yes it is a major problem.

Good luck to all those seeking peace and quiet!!

Here are facts on noise to

#79265 On Wednesday, May 21, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Here are facts on noise to bolster your positions as noise sufferers:
freewebs.com/noisefacts/

Death to noisy people- total

#79193 On Thursday, May 15, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Death to noisy people- total scum- and to all of those whom aid and abet them (the NWO minions who have created this system)!

I second the motion.

#82135 On Saturday, August 30, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I second the motion.

We have the same kind of

#78531 On Friday, April 11, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

We have the same kind of problems here in our Apartment in San Jose. Our landlady has had 2 written complaints from us, 9 phone calls, and has come down here 3 times and told the people to move their stereo off our shared wall and that if it can be heard with their doors and windows closed at all, that it is too loud. We HAVE called the police 3 times twice they refused to come unless we were willing to press charges.
Our landlady's usual method of dealing with it is to send down the maintenance man to tell them if it's loud to turn it down. He got them their lease and lies about it.

she has an unofficial building supervisor here, who is seldom home and keep saying "were taking care of it".

I am disabled with severe obstructive sleep apnea, which causes migraines, insomnia, and I am barely able to even do my dishes or cook due to how bad it is.
Our landlady was made aware of this and told that the 2-3 hours a day of loud bass on the wall is causing me mental anguish( think about how repetitive bass tracks on your wall would be if you got 1 1/2 hours good sleep a night). She will do nothing about these people.
We are all on month to month leases so kicking them is no big hassle, as they daily violate 2-3 complex rules.
Did i mention in the same entertainment center they now have added a widescreen TV with stereo surround?

What the hell is someone supposed to do?
We cannot afford to move, the landlord now will not pickup when we call, and we checked out the owners company and her family owns it.

My neighbour downstairs from

#78494 On Thursday, April 10, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

My neighbour downstairs from me is soooo disturbed by my walking around in my own apartment that he has taken to blasting me out with music. For those of you who complain about the people upstairs, perhaps maybe its just the shitty floorboards that are the cause. I have people above me who do the same and i just block it out but insane nelly downstairs now has a vendetta against ME for just walking around my house like a normal person, shyat! anyone know how to hover or fly???

its nice to know i wasn't

#79087 On Friday, May 09, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

its nice to know i wasn't the only one that was happening to. the couple that lived below me called the cops on me 3 times and wrote me treating letters about killing my dog and saying we should be tied up and locked in a room and when we went to the management about it all they said was that they would call them but turns out they never did and the letters cotinued. i ened up moving cuz not to long after i was robbed by people who lived in the same buildings and knowing these people managment still failed to do anything same with the police

I live in a small 2 bedroom

#78416 On Saturday, April 05, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I live in a small 2 bedroom and since day one the neighbor downstairs plays music at 4am. He nailed speakers into the walls of living room and bedroom and all he does when he is home is blast music/video games thru these speakers.

I complained to the landlord and he says what I deem as noise may not be that loud. I say anything at 4am is loud. Not to mention the bass that shakes the floor and furniture. WTF!!!!!

I am fascinated by all of

#78402 On Friday, April 04, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I am fascinated by all of these comments, complaints, and suggestions. I live in a condo where the management fines occupants who make too much noise, and the Eurotrash who live next to me have actually turned down the volume on their stereo. I think that they moved the speakers away from our common wall. Success! Over the years, I have also found that rabble-rousers tend to move on faster than regular tenants or owners. So be patient, call the police if absolutely necessary, and wear those wax earplugs that another poster suggested. I have used them, and they do work. Good luck to you all!

oh my gosh! to everyone on

#78357 On Tuesday, April 01, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

oh my gosh! to everyone on here i am going through the same thing being a downstairs tenant. there is an old couple that livea above me that i swear are running a circus by night, they have a tele they leave on that i can hear and they wake up at like 430am and do god knows what! then we have miscreants who think this is some ghettoised version of friday and blast their music and have company at all times during the week and weekend standing outside and talking....isn't that what a home is for? to entertain? i'm jus expecting DayDay and Debo to ride up along with snoop dog, screw me for not doing my research....if anyone knows how to handle this situation please let me know....i've written a complaints to my rentals company cause the guy who has the company at all hours of days is the maintenance man for the rental company! now it's ackward to even walkby his house and his ;loud mouth ghetto wife is always talking crap so..needless to say i wanna pay the reletting fee and find someone else to rent this pos to....please...housemusicdivah@aol.com
ps. there are two GI's that are next door to me and they don't even get any consideration period about how this affects them getting up for work as i do at 5am!!!!!!!!!

Well my life is a hell . i

#78301 On Friday, March 28, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Well my life is a hell . i smoke excissevely now after i bought my new apartment. my work starts at 4 PM and i come back home around 1 am , eat a sndwitch and sleep for 3 hrs till this stupid family wakes up at 5 am and start banging and walking with heels on , they leave at 7 am , i sleep 1 hours then there mom starts the daily campaign of cleaning their home , moving every piece of furniture , it is wooden and scratches the floor and imagine how it sounds when im under them . i talked to them 3 times ! and they were polite but after 3 days they forget everything . now i cant afford moving or renting or even staying at a motel . i lost 15 kgs in three months and i guess im depresses . thinkinf of the situation is an obsession . may be i do something to myself . i lost the joys of life

go eat a plastic bag

#78675 On Monday, April 21, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

go eat a plastic bag

What the ----

#78758 On Monday, April 28, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

What the ----

PS: I messed up, about the

#78425 On Sunday, April 06, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

PS: I messed up, about the maintenance guy - that was someone else's post, but just the same - you should not live your life of hell over these neighbors. Sorry about the mixup. Good luck and do what you can to rid this problem. Isn't apartment life just beautiful??????? I'd rather live in a cave. by myself.

Bless yer heart. That's

#78424 On Sunday, April 06, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Bless yer heart. That's just a fubblin, blasted shame that you haVe lost your joy to live because of some worthless, villainess, wicked neighbors. God I hAte that. It sucks!! You should NOT have to endure that kind of crap just to live in a home. Jesus C, you are not in jail! That's what jail is like - you don't have a choice of nothing! You should Absolutely do everything in your power to try and get out of your lease without fees or judgement. I tell ya, if the maintenance guy is the one who's the actual problem, then you probably don't have a chance in hell of staying there peafully, UNLESS.......he gets fired and has to move out his own damn self, which would be so wonderful! You have got to go to the police station in person and have a one on one with an officer privately, and see what he suggests; also, you should go online or however, and find any resources to back you up or help you find a way to get out of that HELL. I mean you should not be living a life of "JAIL" when you are not even in jail - unless of course it's your desire and your choice, which it's NOT. Good luck to you....

I saw this post on the

#78368 On Wednesday, April 02, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I saw this post on the bottom of the page and thought it is the best one of all, so I'm re-posting it:

If your neighbors are making your life a living hell due to excessive noise, here's what you should do. The most important this is to remain calm no matter how angry you get.

Before filing any formal complaints, try talking to the neighbor who is making the noise, sometimes people do not realize that the noise in their apartment can be heard from someone else's apartment even if it may be obvious to everyone else. Speak to them in a polite manner. Make sure you keep a record of the day and time you spoke to them. If the neighbor is considerate, you will notice that they will tone the noise down. If they are jerks, you might notice that they will start making more noise on purpose. If this happens, send them a certified letter. In your letter note the date and time you spoke to them and state that the noise from their apartment has escalated since that date. Do not threaten them or say anything nasty in the letter no matter how angry you are. Just make it clear to them that if the noise continues, you will inform management. If they are really inconsiderate, they will not care and will continue making noise. I suggest that you get a recorder that uses a microphone. If they live above you tape the microphone to your ceiling and record all the noise coming from their apartment. Also have someone who is not family witness the noise in your apartment. Keep a record of the days and times that the noise is going on.

When the noise continues, send a certified letter to the landlord. You might want to include a copy of the letter you sent your neighbor. Many Leases have a clause on Warranty of Habibility and some have specific clauses on Noise. This can be used to your advantage since a Lease is a legal contract that both you and your landlord signed as so did the inconsiderate neighbors, who are clearly not abiding by the terms of their lease. Keep your letter short and to the point stating the type of noise the tenants are making and the hours that this is going on. If there is a noise Clause on your lease, quote it in the letter. Tell the landlord that the noise is affecting your health and thank him in advance for taking care of the situation. (You don't want to come off as a crazy angry person in your letter) Keep a copy of the letter you send your landlord along with the letter you sent your neighbor and the receipts for the certified mail along with the recordings. All this will help you if you have to go to court.

Here in NY we have 311. If you have this service, call them every time your neighbor is making excessive noise. They will give you a complaint number. You can later on contact them to get them to send you these complaints in writing.

If the Landlord does not do anything about the noise problem, you have a few options. You can take your Landlord to court if you want to break your lease and move or you might even be able to get a rent abatement due to the conditions (make sure to bring all your proof, letters you have sent, recordings, logs, 311 complaints (not the #'s but the actual hardcopy complaint from 311) and witnesses, if you have any.

If you don't want to take that route, you can try suing your neighbor in small claims court. You will need proof. Here is where the letters and recordings will help. Sometimes inconsiderate people will continue to be jerks until you hit them in their pockets. Sad that it has to be that way but that I think will be the most effective way of stopping the nuisance. The more proof you have the better your chances of winning the case. So make sure you have dates, times, letters you have sent to the tenants, Landlord, your state representatives, complaint documentation--the more documentation you have, the better. If these people are not letting you sleep and it's affecting your health, go to the doctor and get this documented.

No one has to put up with this type of nuisance. Do not think that there is nothing you can do--you just have to do it the smart way, which will take much patience from your part. We live in times where rents are escalating like crazy and we have to work really hard just to pay our rent. It makes no sense to work so hard, pay most of our money on rent for an apartment where we can't get any peace, relaxation or sleep. Do research. Get Educated and put an end to noise pollution. Hope this helps.

Thank you, Thank you, Thank

#78426 On Sunday, April 06, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Thank you, Thank you, Thank you - You are so very helpful and you are appreciated for this detailed list of help for us tenants who feel we don't have a leg to stand on..........Much Thanks to you indeed. This may give some people HOPE, where there was none!

I'm so sorry to here you are

#78366 On Wednesday, April 02, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I'm so sorry to here you are in so much turmoil. I know your pain. I had the very same issues last year for an entire year and also became depressed and felt trapped! It is unfortunate that anyone outside the situation cannot understand the toll that noise (especially from above) can take on a person's mental and physical state. I was frequently brought to tears of despair and helplessness when I was also kept awake by stomping above. But there IS a light at the end of the tunnel. You will regain the joys of life if you just hang in there!

First: Get LOTS of HIGH QUALITY ear plugs! Pick the ones that cancel out as much sound as possible. I used a lot of spongy disposables that worked pretty good. Don't wait another minute, buy them today (even 24-hour Rite Aid and grocery stores sell them). This is a MUST if you want to regain a little bit of shuteye and your sanity!

Second:
Temporarily relocate your sleeping quarters to the quietest part of your apt. Even if this means sleeping on the couch, on the floor, heck, even in the closet if it helps! And don't wait to move 'til you are woken up by noise, go ahead and sleep in that spot BEFORE the ruckus begins.

Third:
It is hard when your neighbors just don't get it, but maybe you should calmly, but firmly plead with them using the exact words you used in this comment. You may even write them a polite letter if you are uncomfortable doing it in person, but you will lose the opportunity to best convey your emotions with your face, gestures, and posture. Perhaps they will remember to be more considerate after you tell them that it has caused you to lose so much weight and everything else. Thank them profusely for their recent efforts and for listening to your concerns. They need to know that you appreciate their good intentions. If you can get them to truly feel sympathy for your condition, that may turn things around. But be sure to express that you understand they are good neighbors and your request is just that - a request (yet, out of desperation). Don't be afraid to let them know exactly how desperate and helpless you feel, but above all, be polite and not demanding. At this point, you have nothing to lose by being upfront with them.

You might even consider working out a compromise. For example, maybe they will agree only to clean 3 mornings/week instead of 5 or agree not to where shoes in the room above your bed. Or buy them those little felt pads to place on the 'feet' of their furniture, which are cheap and sold at hardware stores. Ask them if they would consider using them and inform them that they make sliding furniture also much easier on physical effort.

Alas, don't be surprised when they either refuse or forget. Most people are just incapable of understanding why they should modify THEIR perfectly 'normal' behavior/routine just because someone else can't deal with it. I only wish it wasn't so.

Third:
If speaking/writing to them one last time doesn't resolve it, and the earplugs don't work out, then I would do the following:

a) See someone for your depression ASAP if you feel it is seriously compromising your daily life and well-being. NOTHING is more important than your health! If you think you can't afford it, there must be all kinds of local affordable mental health programs out there - you just need to find 'em. See if the Dr. can teach you relaxation methods or something before just writing out a prescription. And beware of sleep-aid drugs though, they are highly addictive.

b) Move-out! If you are trapped by your lease, then look into the fee of breaking it (usually one-month's rent), it might be worth it. I made up a fabricated story to break a lease once, and had to even provide evidence to corroborate it, which I also did. It worked, but I still had to pay the fee. Or, see if the manager will let you relocate to another unit (upstairs) for a fee. Explain to them your deteriorating health due to the noise and maybe, just maybe, they will have a heart. Maybe if you can get a Dr.'s note explaining that you must move for your health conditions, then perhaps there is some legal loophole that will permit you to break the lease for health reasons. OR sublet your place to someone else so that you don't break the lease. Most places have restrictions against this, but doing it illegally is an option, though a very risky one - especially if the sub-leasee is a bad tenant.

c) Stay with a friend/relative/co-worker. They will understand if they are truly your friend and you explain that it is short-term and your health depends on it.

d) Sleep elsewhere. Since you sleep in the daytime, you could safely and easily get away with sleeping in lots of public areas for free. I've napped in my car many times in multiple shopping center parking lots. (You'd probably be better off in a busier one than an empty one which would make you look suspicious). There is a risk that someone will think you are a hobo and call the cops, but it's not like they would arrest you for it. Maybe check out a nice shady, grassy park - people nap at those all the time, they were made for it! Or sleep in your car parked next to a park or similar area. Or maybe in your car parked at your apartment is even good enough. It's never as nice as a bed, but noise is the priority here.

e) Above all, hang in there! Tell yourself frequently (out-loud) that you are strong and will get through this and things will turn around. It's mind over matter and your mind is capable of overcoming just about anything! Avoid dwelling on it as much as possible. Keep your mind busy with positive thoughts or reading, even if you don't believe those positive thoughts.

I am no expert, but I have had a lot of experience with your predicament and I wrote this long response because I empathize with you and wish someone had shared these ideas with me when I was suffering. I left when my lease ended and have been blissfully happy ever since! There is life after noise, I PROMISE! =) Best of luck, friend.

I have a problem with my

#78105 On Thursday, March 13, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I have a problem with my upstairs neighbor. We have meet and she seemed nice but recently have been having problems. I am in the military and work from 12am till 7am and am married and my wife sleeps at night and works in the morning. She is complaining of loud noises at 3 or 4 in the morning and stops on the ceiling nearly knocking pictures off the walls and my wife will end up calling me telling me about it. The lady above us has complained as well as we have. Well recently me and my wife were watching tv( 18 out of 100) and just had violent stomping at about 1130 on a day I had off. I raised my voice and asked to them to be quiet. About 10 minutes later I had a cop at my door threating to give me a ticket while me and my wife are at my door in our Pjs with the tv still going the same volume. I asked the Cop if he could hear the TV and he said NO. I have sent a letter to them and the apartment manager. What should I do, I dont want the people above us to try to do something and try to get us kicked out because of nothing.?? I think the woman is senile...if you could please tell me what I could do.. jaksterjah86@hotmail.com

After reading about other

#77878 On Monday, February 25, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

After reading about other people's horror stories it has really helped me to feel a little better. I live on the first floor and the people on top of me have three children. They allow their children to run up and down all day. It is enough that I hear their walking, but to hear their children running all day is very frustrating. I could not take it any more so my husband and I went to confront them. I told them that they need to control their children, because they run up and down all day long.The husband responded that I make it sound like they have a bunch of hyenas and how can I tell them to control their children. My husband is the hypocrit. He started out by saying the noise is disturbing me, in other words it is not bothering him. The couple started acting like they have no idea what I was talking about, there children do not run up and down the house. I left my husband there talking with them, because I realized that we were not going to get anywhere. After that day the running stopped for about a week, but after that it started full storm. From morning to 11:30 their children was left running continuos. I never seen children with so much energy in my life. They must have attention deficit disorder. One day about one month later I could not take it anymore. When the children had went to sleep and it was quite I wanted to give them war. I opened the windows so that the other tenants could hear my loud screaming and started banging the ceiling and they started banging back. The wife came down stairs knocking on my door and I did not open the door and told her to leave. I was ready not to give them peace. We started exchanging words but what struck me the most was when she said that she pays mortgage and my husband and I pay only rent. I am in a studio so there is really no other room for me to go in. I told her this and at least now the children run in the other part of the house. Though it is still bad it is not so direct, so I would accept it until we find another place. I am drained out.

EVERY CITY HAS A NOISE

#77863 On Saturday, February 23, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

EVERY CITY HAS A NOISE ORDINANCE RULE. 6AM TO 10PM. CALL THE POLICE AND IF THEY ARE NOTIFIED THAT THE LANDLORD IS NOT TAKING CARE OF THE PROBLEM, THE LANDLORD WILL BE FIND 350 BECAUSE THE POLICE HAD TO BE CALLED FOR A FALSE CALL DUE TO FACT THE LANDLORD IS NOT MANAGE THE BUILDING CORRECTLY. I KNOW OF AN EXAMPLE IN PLEASANTON CALIFORNIA WHERE THE POLICE FIND 350 TO THE LANDLORD AND THE BUILDING OWNER. AND THE RENTER WAS ABLE TO FILE A POLICE REPORT AGAINST THE LANDLORD FOR NOT PROVIDING A SAFE ATMOSPHERE. The District Attorney accepted it and the building delt with a hefty fine.

Not every city

#78759 On Monday, April 28, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Not every city

I can also relate to all

#77769 On Saturday, February 16, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I can also relate to all these posts...I too have tried everything to stop the downstairs noisemaking jerks. Asked nicely, didn't work, complain to mgmt, what a joke that was...called the cops, they didn't show, and my spouse IS a cop! But he can't just show up downstairs with his badge and gun much as we'd love to it just doesn't work that way...it seems to me that with "fair housing" laws that protect EVERYBODY'S civil rights according to race, gender, disability, nationality, etc, why shouldn't there be protection for those who just want to live in peace and quiet??? Just like there are senior communities that can deny anyone under a particular age, there should be communities that require a certain level of quiet. You only live there if that is what you are looking for and you are assured others there want the same. Let the rude, loud, inconsiderate ones all live together and enjoy each others' noise.

Landlords seem to be able to get away with ignoring lease violators until the negatively affected party is forced to do something drastic and costly like see a lawyer and/or sue or end up with the huge cost and inconvenience of actually moving. How is that fair?? When there seem to be so many people with this same problem as witnessed in this blog (and many others) why on earth is there no justice about this issue??? We are RIDICULOUSLY quiet and considerate and just want the same in return not to mention the most important thing...we and the jerks are bound by the same lease yet they are able to violate repeatedly with no consequence.

I totally identify with those here who are on their last nerve. Many times while enduring the ruckus downstairs, I eyeball my Louisville slugger and debate how embarrassing it might be for my husband to get called while on duty and told his wife was being booked at jail for losing it and going off on the neighbors! It's unfortunate how seemingly relatively small situations can escalate but this is one example of how it happens. A potentially dangerous person is one who feels helpless, hopeless and victimized after consistently 'abiding by the rules' and 'doing the right thing' only to find that a perpetrator is allowed to continue their obnoxious, selfish and sometimes illegal behavior unhindered.

We live in an apt by choice as do many people. With such a large population doing so, (especially in this part of the country) it would seem that builders would easily be able to afford to upgrade construction because of demand for units and property mgmt companies would be at the top of their game as far as "managing" yet this is not the case.

We finally did see an attorney with all of our documentaion and are now armed with our legal rights and some viable choices. Unfortunately to permanently end the problem we may still face a bit of inconvenience and a relatively small financial cost but at this point, it is no worse than the insanity of dealing with the jerks that began the problem and those who refuse to fix it.

They are hard to find but there are some attorneys out there who will see you for low or no cost and some areas have mediation type agencies through your local city government, look in your phonebook, it's worth the peace of mind.

And to all those noisemakers slamming those who want peace and quiet...karma and payback are a b*tch.

Yes! I completely agree with

#81474 On Tuesday, August 12, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

Yes! I completely agree with the comment that there should be complexes that serve the quiet people among us! My husband and I are extremely quiet, abide by all rules and pay our rent two weeks early every month without fail. Yet, the "rights" of those who break the rules somehow always seem to trump ours! We are in the 28-35 age range, but wish we could move to a 50+ community for the quiet!!

We have the same problem

#77905 On Tuesday, February 26, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

We have the same problem with our upstairs neighbors. When we rented our apartment, we specifically asked about noise and were told the building was concrete and very quiet. That was not the truth. The floors are wood construction, and we hear every footstep and every bowling ball that drops above us.

After some time, we approached our neighbors and told them that the building was at fault, but asked if they would just be aware of the problem. They didn't care. To make matters worse, their grandson visits several times a week and runs and jumps the entire time he is here.

The doors in this building are also self-closing (read "self-slamming"), and 90% of the people here do just that ... let them slam.

I've complained to management many times and was ignored.

After over two years of this, my health has suffered and my nerves are shot. I quit my job because I couldn't take stress all day at work and then come home at night to listen to the constant thumping and bumping and heel-driving above us. We're now in the very expensive and exhausting process of moving.

I'm just curious - you quit

#79780 On Sunday, June 15, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

I'm just curious - you quit your job?? How are you paying for the apartment or the move??

if you can afford to quit

#78120 On Friday, March 14, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

if you can afford to quit your job, then you can afford to move and let us non-old people enjoy life!!!!!!!!!

If you can take the time to

#78313 On Friday, March 28, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

If you can take the time to post on this forum, possibly you can take a few extra moments to write something people would care to read about since what you just posted is asinine as HELL!

If you can take the time to

#78289 On Thursday, March 27, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

If you can take the time to post on this forum, possibly you can take a few extra moments to write something people would care to read about since what you just posted is asinine as HELL!

ha ha!

#82713 On Sunday, September 21, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

ha ha!

So me and my roomate have

#76512 On Monday, January 21, 2008 Guest (not verified) said,

So me and my roomate have been living in our apartment for about 3 months now. We have had maybe 1 or 2 people over at a time. And that isn't that often when we do have people over. About a month ago we got a 10 day notice on our door saying that our music was too loud one night and that if we had any complaints in the next 10 days we would have to vacate. I went and talked to our apartment manager and she said that maybe it was where are radio was in the apartment and that we could try moving it...so we did that. She also said that in case it got too loud for our neighbors we should exchange phone numbers with them and just let them know when we would be having people over...so we did that also. 2 days ago we had planned to have some people over so we went and talked to our neighbors and they were all fine with it. They even came over and had some drinks with us. The next day I got a very rude call from the apartment manager saying we have no respect for anyone but ourselves and that she was going to send a sherriff over and we would have 24 hours to vacate. Is this legal for them to be able to kick us out in 24 hours? I know it got a little loud but we did everything they told us to do. Moved our radio and talked to the neighbors. I need help with this.

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