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My story, i can't even begin to explain, but i sure as hell will try! Well me and my boyfriend hit it off the second we met, yet his roommie brother was a harder person to please than G.W.Bush Himself! I really don't know why he never warmed up to me being around until i moved in. I had my own apt and life was great especially with my and M. One day M was talking about what it would be like to live together, and i couldn't have been more thrilled with how intimate we were getting. After talking about our bill problems one day we decided that with me moving in with him would save a lot more money for pleasure for us two rather than obligated bills. So what did i do? Anyone? Yea, i moved in with M and his rather unpleasant brother. Space isn't limited though, it's like a dream apt, with two front doors, the whole second floor with three bedrooms, and an attic for pool-playing. Life seemed like it couldn't get any better, but then again it never really is what it seems. After awhile i realized what a problem-maker his brother really is, like insisting on having his drinking buddies here every night until 3am or later. Ok, i'm no Taco Bell here open for your enjoyment. hehe Well lets just break it down to our daily routine for better understanding.

8am- M wakes up and watches his daily shows
10am-I get up and time for cleaning. (Start with the upstairs with old beer cans, and then downstairs to clean more beer cans in the bathroom, living room, and of course the kitchen. Afterwards i resort to the dishes which look like they haven't been touched since the stone age, but don't let appearances fool you. I'm sure that piles only been there for two days.)
12pm-After dishes are done, then i start on laundry (which i get bitched at for b/c we use the same plug for the washer as we do the microwave, so by the time T rolls outta bed at 2ish-3pm, he can't make food b/c of our laundry. Typically. Around this time M helps by cleaning up the bathroom, living room, etc, then go's back to his shows.
8pm-Laundry's done and time for relaxation, yet hard to do with the party going on outside my bedroom door, sometimes i have to crank my t.v. on a high volume just to drown them out every night.
11pm-Try to sleep and can't b/c of loud noise.
3am-i'm pissed and tried and still haven't sleep, yet the jokers seem pretty content falling asleep on the floor or wherever.
3:05am-I go to the bathroom before i drift off for the night and slip on piss on the floor, or sit on a wet seat. Not fun at all!

As of always this same routine happens every day after day. Do i get respect for it? NO, but i sure as hell get more work and headache from it. One time T was drinking heavily and didn't like they way i said someone to him, and needless to say he threw me up aganist the wall, almost had a knife to my throat when M came in and tackled him for it. Barely a slap on the hand for any drunk, so he got up and started a rampage on the apt, breaking everything in sight. We had to leave by this time, but when we got back he had a knife in his hand asking for me repeatedly. Creep much? If that ain't bad, by the time i got enough courage to step foot in our apt i found broken cds of mine laying on the floor, missing items never seen again, as well as irreplaceable baby pictures from my grandparent's torn up on the floor. Worse than that? The fact that that little mutant even had the balls to take my dead father's pictures and tear them to shreds , and all he does now is laugh about it, like its freaking funny or some shit?!? I mean wtf? Not the only time my stuff got broken, or he freaked out cause he was too drunk, more like an every other week thing. Living here is draining me mentally, physically, and money-wise.

Now this lazy fruitcake is living with me and M getting in the way of our relationship, as well as causing problems between us two b/c his g/f and brother hate each other, understandable but wouldn't you hate him too? This dude is 20 yrs old, doesn't bath, work, or lift a finger unless its to cook up someone i bought for me. Yea so me and M are paying the bills and this kid's just sucking it all up. I really don't know what to do, b/c my man wants to help him get on his feet, when he has no desire whatsoever to get a job, license, or ged....he'd rather be another waste to society. I've already thought about him getting evicted or kicked out but none of that will work b/c he's a crazy mofo and will destroy my relationship, car, belongings, which i can't afford or want to lose. I'm at my wit's end and thought of every possible solution but none helps what i'm dealing with here. The only think else i can say is HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Any real advice would be greatly appreciated and willing to hear threw email, get ahold of me at sarahsweetums21@hotmail.com with RE:Roommie Trouble