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I think it is absolutely necessary to live with the significant other if you are having any thoughts about a marriage with them. It is really sad when things don't work out and it might get messy if the lease is not up yet but there is no denying that divorce is so much worse (and costly, especially if you are the man).

I'd like to be an optimistic girl here but even if you do get married, there is no sure way of knowing that it's forever. None of us know what the future holds but what makes us human is the amount of hope we have that the love in our life is THE ONE.

I've been with a man for almost 5 years and we have just now decided to give the living-together a whirl.
When it comes to love, you honestly can't rush anything. Dating for a few months and then moving in=bad idea. Dating for a year and then getting married=worse idea. Just my humble opinion :)