#73260On Wednesday, August 22, 2007Guest (not verified) said,
Wow, seems like there is a concensus here: Don't live with your best friend". Sadly I have done that and now need some advice. Last night we had a blow out fight over the fact that she didn't take the garbage out. I had purposely not taken it out since I had for the last two weeks straight and I guess the plan backfired. Now she is accusing me of not knowing about all the cleaning she does since I am not around as much, eating food that I was under the impression we were sharing, etc etc. I didn't think that we would have to be that way( aka you take out trash these days, I will clean this these days etc.) since we were friends and could "talk things out".
After last night and dealing with her attack and very immature resolve of the issue - walking faster to get ahead of me - I am wondering: How do I work this out with her so we stay friends but can live together smoothly. There are a few more dynamics: she dislikes my boyfriend ( who I barely bring around to accompodate that), she didn't want to move to the city we live in but did since she had no other plans and she is a complete princess ( one of the things I liked about her BEFORE we moved in together). HELP!!!! I need advice or this friendship is out the window!
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Wow, seems like there is a
Wow, seems like there is a concensus here: Don't live with your best friend". Sadly I have done that and now need some advice. Last night we had a blow out fight over the fact that she didn't take the garbage out. I had purposely not taken it out since I had for the last two weeks straight and I guess the plan backfired. Now she is accusing me of not knowing about all the cleaning she does since I am not around as much, eating food that I was under the impression we were sharing, etc etc. I didn't think that we would have to be that way( aka you take out trash these days, I will clean this these days etc.) since we were friends and could "talk things out".
After last night and dealing with her attack and very immature resolve of the issue - walking faster to get ahead of me - I am wondering: How do I work this out with her so we stay friends but can live together smoothly. There are a few more dynamics: she dislikes my boyfriend ( who I barely bring around to accompodate that), she didn't want to move to the city we live in but did since she had no other plans and she is a complete princess ( one of the things I liked about her BEFORE we moved in together). HELP!!!! I need advice or this friendship is out the window!
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