#81024On Wednesday, July 30, 2008Guest (not verified) said,
It's your friend's fault for acting the way she did. It's also her fault for bringing in these so-called friends of hers over. She is a cause for trouble and ppl do break out when they look good for so long as you knew them to be good. I had roommates who look "good" for months or weeks, then they suddenly change overnight and become a different person. She may be your friend but since you room with her, you might have to lose her friendship. Do you want to continue to feel blamed and bitched at for no apparent reason? It's emotional and mental abuse. You should not be put down for telling them to be quiet. She is sucking up so she doesn't lose these mofos. She wants to fit in. One option, sit down with her now before three months is up, and have another chat with her. Don't forgive her, just tell her not to bring those creeps over again AND talk of your friendship to her, what she means to you, to her, etc. Second option, give her no chance when talking and tell her when the lease is up in a few months, that you don't want her as a roommate again. Decide what your options are, and go from there. IMO, I would not room with her again!
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It's your friend's fault for
It's your friend's fault for acting the way she did. It's also her fault for bringing in these so-called friends of hers over. She is a cause for trouble and ppl do break out when they look good for so long as you knew them to be good. I had roommates who look "good" for months or weeks, then they suddenly change overnight and become a different person. She may be your friend but since you room with her, you might have to lose her friendship. Do you want to continue to feel blamed and bitched at for no apparent reason? It's emotional and mental abuse. You should not be put down for telling them to be quiet. She is sucking up so she doesn't lose these mofos. She wants to fit in. One option, sit down with her now before three months is up, and have another chat with her. Don't forgive her, just tell her not to bring those creeps over again AND talk of your friendship to her, what she means to you, to her, etc. Second option, give her no chance when talking and tell her when the lease is up in a few months, that you don't want her as a roommate again. Decide what your options are, and go from there. IMO, I would not room with her again!
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