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you just have to realize that not everyone is ment to be your friend. You are roommates first. If you are able to be friends with your roommate then that's an added bonus. I do agree that she should tell you when friends are coming in advance - that's pretty rude. You should talk to her about it and emphasize the importance of you knowing who will be in your shared apartment. My advice would be to have your plans together just in case this situation doesn't work out. And in the future, if you need that social connection - it may be best to room with a friend.