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You know, friends will be accomodating and have your best interests at heart. She's obviously scared to state the situation with them, or either they're not willing to make it an issue. Why can't she sleep over at their place? I'd explain the situation to her, about your rep as a bride-to-be, in person. It's no excuse for her to blame her inappropriate behavior on her friends' maybe rifts. But this may also cause you to gain a not-so-pure image from your in-laws. Counter her concern with your concern (which, to me, is more pressing). And tell her politely that she agreed to those terms, and if she's not willing to comply with them, she can start looking for a place where those conditions are okay.
Good luck!