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I've been in some interesting situations before too, all I can tell you is that it's very difficult to change people through talk alone. Action combined with talk is always the best response, and I would recommend looking for a new place now and planning your escape from the situation. Right now, you're probably stressing and hoping to resolve the situation through negotiation with Janine, but she's not willing to sit down and clear the air. This sounds like its about dominance, and believe me, before a situation develops into a physical confrontation or another tantrum involving the police, I would plan your exit. If Janine owns the house, this places her in a power-position vis-a-vis you, and your options are narrowed even further. Her calling the police after chatting with a friend in a car, is a red flag. Things tend to escalate as time passes, and as difficult as it may be, you need to look around now for a place to live that is more secure. I've learned that where you live is VERY important, as it really is your sanctuary from the world. If it isn't a safe sanctuary, and you are delaying going home after school/work, and on edge about a room-mates behaviour, you need to find somewhere new to live. Start looking online for something better, rather than talking about the situation, action is always the best response!