#78162On Wednesday, March 19, 2008Guest (not verified) said,
In situations like this, the hammer's gotta come down. Don't think I mean murdering your roommates, LOL. But seriously, if you two originally made a verbal agreement, then you both should stick to it, and if the other doesn't, then you have reason to complain. As far as the friendship, a real friend would be considerate, and a real friendship could survive a confrontation, wherein you express how you have been done wrong. Confrontation in matters like this is necessary, but just keep your cool if you get a defensive reaction...in my experience people seem way too defensive when they're told they've done something wrong/disrespectful, instead of owning up to their mistakes.
Also, you can always just haul ass without paying a dime, since you paid with your having to put up with such disrespect. Find another place to live if you have to. lol. I'm (halfway) joking on that one...
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In situations like this, the
In situations like this, the hammer's gotta come down. Don't think I mean murdering your roommates, LOL. But seriously, if you two originally made a verbal agreement, then you both should stick to it, and if the other doesn't, then you have reason to complain. As far as the friendship, a real friend would be considerate, and a real friendship could survive a confrontation, wherein you express how you have been done wrong. Confrontation in matters like this is necessary, but just keep your cool if you get a defensive reaction...in my experience people seem way too defensive when they're told they've done something wrong/disrespectful, instead of owning up to their mistakes.
Also, you can always just haul ass without paying a dime, since you paid with your having to put up with such disrespect. Find another place to live if you have to. lol. I'm (halfway) joking on that one...
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