#77852On Friday, February 22, 2008Guest (not verified) said,
Ok, so i let a cousin from my brothers marriage move in with my kid and i for a few months...i know everyone has things they get pissed off at from time to time. Its been two months now exactly...things seem sort of tense, and im not one to be socially open every minute, so i dont sit down and talk everyday....dont want to be burned out.... Anyways, ive been feeling tense about letting him stay though hes been an alright friend...(before he moved in)he has had a sort of as$holish attitude towards me about the way i am basically....but i stick thru the shit and still call him a friend. I felt bad for him and knew he needed a place to go and try to get on his feet....hes always saying how hes outta this town la la la.... but lately this tense feeling has got me twisted up. I am starting to feel like i shouldnt trust him in the house...You know the thoughts( are they going through private stuff, mail, personal information...or just being snoopy seeing what valuables you may have.) Personally, i hardly trust anyone so it has been hard, but i deal. ANYWAYS, i came to the conclusion, since the hotwater tank went out last weekend, that he was pissed off cause the landlord hadnt came out to fix it and just got the feeling he wasnt to happy, nor was I. Well I took a recording of some audio that day just to see if my feeling were true about the whole situation. Come to find out after 8 hours of recording, Alot of trash talking to himself......"bastard".....and some things I couldnt make out.. but what really got me is what was said minutes after i left the house this morning......Trash talking with this statement "nasty ------- piece of shit, put some cologne on your balls and go, you rotten --ing nasty --ing hobo" I had to run out the door to do some things and remember we HAVE NO HOT WATER...---- a cold ass shower in 20F weather dude. So now here i am wondering where I should take this.....bring it up...or let it slide, and continue to see what the next day brings. I can record a whole day, uses barely a 1GB of mem..and ive got plenty of space....but I know for sure, im about to blow my lid if I dont get some insight.....ANYONE????????????
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Ok, so i let a cousin from
Ok, so i let a cousin from my brothers marriage move in with my kid and i for a few months...i know everyone has things they get pissed off at from time to time. Its been two months now exactly...things seem sort of tense, and im not one to be socially open every minute, so i dont sit down and talk everyday....dont want to be burned out.... Anyways, ive been feeling tense about letting him stay though hes been an alright friend...(before he moved in)he has had a sort of as$holish attitude towards me about the way i am basically....but i stick thru the shit and still call him a friend. I felt bad for him and knew he needed a place to go and try to get on his feet....hes always saying how hes outta this town la la la.... but lately this tense feeling has got me twisted up. I am starting to feel like i shouldnt trust him in the house...You know the thoughts( are they going through private stuff, mail, personal information...or just being snoopy seeing what valuables you may have.) Personally, i hardly trust anyone so it has been hard, but i deal. ANYWAYS, i came to the conclusion, since the hotwater tank went out last weekend, that he was pissed off cause the landlord hadnt came out to fix it and just got the feeling he wasnt to happy, nor was I. Well I took a recording of some audio that day just to see if my feeling were true about the whole situation. Come to find out after 8 hours of recording, Alot of trash talking to himself......"bastard".....and some things I couldnt make out.. but what really got me is what was said minutes after i left the house this morning......Trash talking with this statement "nasty ------- piece of shit, put some cologne on your balls and go, you rotten --ing nasty --ing hobo" I had to run out the door to do some things and remember we HAVE NO HOT WATER...---- a cold ass shower in 20F weather dude. So now here i am wondering where I should take this.....bring it up...or let it slide, and continue to see what the next day brings. I can record a whole day, uses barely a 1GB of mem..and ive got plenty of space....but I know for sure, im about to blow my lid if I dont get some insight.....ANYONE????????????
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