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I dont think you are even close to understanding where this situation is or was at. We all need help from time to time in our lives and this roommate talks your ear off because she is frightened in life and afraid she will have no where to go, no where to turn, and the only person that seems to listen is you. She is leaning on you probably "desperately" hoping that the rug doesn't get pulled out from under her right when she starts to get her head above water. She has no future plans at the moment which is valid because she is trying to get on her feet, and actually just trying to COPE with life at the moment, trying to survive and trying to figure on where she is going to go because she probably doesnt have many friends.
What a terrible place for anyone to be. And now you avoid her like the plauge. She hasn't had a very easy life. She feels that somewhere in this life she should have a moment to rest and relax like other people, but those moments never seem to come without much trying and trying. This is why she is watching tv, trying to relax, just gain one moment in this life of relaxation before she has to go back out into the rough world on her own and simply do it all over again before someone else kicks her to the curb. She is probably hoping that something good will one day come her way, like a friend who will completely understand, but she cant understand why people just dont understand. Now dont get me wrong you have helped her but she needs you to go more than that extra miles and you have decided not too.

What the world really needs is friends who will give more not less.

It is nice you opened your house to her but to open your heart to her would be the best thing for her, but she needs more because this world has taken so much from her.
Hope you figure it all out!