#74736On Wednesday, November 14, 2007Guest (not verified) said,
there are four girls in my apartment including me. My roomate and I get along great and we have been brought up in households where we did our part so chores come natural to us. However for the two other girls, not so much. One of the two other girls cleans once in a while in manic spurts and does contribute, so I don't have much qualms about her, but the fourth girl...OMG. I can't take it anymore. She has only emptied the dishwasher TWICE in the 3 months we have lived here, taken out the trash twice, and I believe that's it. We have a large recycling bin that needs to be emptied and my roomate and I have taken the recycling out twice as a team effort, and I keep on leaving notes on the whiteboard telling the other two girls that it's their turn but my requests seem to fade into thin air- obviously they don't respect me and think they can get away with it. It's the fourth girl feels entitled to having chores done for her. She's also incredibly cheap because she never buys toilet paper and steals it from my bathroom. She also never contributed money to apartment furniture and expenses because she wasn't " consulted first" but hey last time i checked she uses the coffee table all the time. She's so selfish and keeps her 30 inch tv in her room and leaves the 12 inch in the common area. Her roomate is too mousy to confront her and it seems everyone is afraid of her. At this point I am tired of writing messages on the whiteboard and I want my voice heard, but I don't want to seem bitchy or confrontational. How do I get this lazy girl do get off her a$$ and contribute, How do i convey to her that she can't live here for free??
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there are four girls in my
there are four girls in my apartment including me. My roomate and I get along great and we have been brought up in households where we did our part so chores come natural to us. However for the two other girls, not so much. One of the two other girls cleans once in a while in manic spurts and does contribute, so I don't have much qualms about her, but the fourth girl...OMG. I can't take it anymore. She has only emptied the dishwasher TWICE in the 3 months we have lived here, taken out the trash twice, and I believe that's it. We have a large recycling bin that needs to be emptied and my roomate and I have taken the recycling out twice as a team effort, and I keep on leaving notes on the whiteboard telling the other two girls that it's their turn but my requests seem to fade into thin air- obviously they don't respect me and think they can get away with it. It's the fourth girl feels entitled to having chores done for her. She's also incredibly cheap because she never buys toilet paper and steals it from my bathroom. She also never contributed money to apartment furniture and expenses because she wasn't " consulted first" but hey last time i checked she uses the coffee table all the time. She's so selfish and keeps her 30 inch tv in her room and leaves the 12 inch in the common area. Her roomate is too mousy to confront her and it seems everyone is afraid of her. At this point I am tired of writing messages on the whiteboard and I want my voice heard, but I don't want to seem bitchy or confrontational. How do I get this lazy girl do get off her a$$ and contribute, How do i convey to her that she can't live here for free??
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