#68792On Thursday, July 19, 2007Guest (not verified) said,
I currently live in a 4 Bdr 1 Ba house with my 2 kids and husband(when he's not deployed). I had a really good friend who was in a bind and needed a place to live. My husband and I discussed it and we offered to let her move in and NOT pay rent. In exchange she was to help me around the house and occassionally help watch the girls. This was to help me out since he is gone for 18 months. She agreed to this arrangement. I have only asked her to watch my children two times in 12 weeks. Once was just to run up to the store. Which she refused to do. She doesn't pay anything towards rent or any utilities. She also isn't doing anything around the house..Except to make a mess.. I have graciously allowed her to have her children come stay with her for 5 weeks this summer. That makes 7 people living my house. They have been rude, mean, disrespectfull of my childrens things and she allows them to. I called her to let her know that we were almost out of milk and could she get a gallon. I had bought the last 3. I came home to find that she had labeled everything in the refrigerator and in the cabinet as hers..This is final straw.. I want the peace and quiet of my house back. How do I go about getting her to move? I have mentioned that she might want to check out local apartments and her response is that she can't afford it. Which I now know is not true. Do I have to legally have her evicted? This is my home. My husband has lived in this house since he was 10. Any suggestions would be GREAT
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I currently live in a 4 Bdr
I currently live in a 4 Bdr 1 Ba house with my 2 kids and husband(when he's not deployed). I had a really good friend who was in a bind and needed a place to live. My husband and I discussed it and we offered to let her move in and NOT pay rent. In exchange she was to help me around the house and occassionally help watch the girls. This was to help me out since he is gone for 18 months. She agreed to this arrangement. I have only asked her to watch my children two times in 12 weeks. Once was just to run up to the store. Which she refused to do. She doesn't pay anything towards rent or any utilities. She also isn't doing anything around the house..Except to make a mess.. I have graciously allowed her to have her children come stay with her for 5 weeks this summer. That makes 7 people living my house. They have been rude, mean, disrespectfull of my childrens things and she allows them to. I called her to let her know that we were almost out of milk and could she get a gallon. I had bought the last 3. I came home to find that she had labeled everything in the refrigerator and in the cabinet as hers..This is final straw.. I want the peace and quiet of my house back. How do I go about getting her to move? I have mentioned that she might want to check out local apartments and her response is that she can't afford it. Which I now know is not true. Do I have to legally have her evicted? This is my home. My husband has lived in this house since he was 10. Any suggestions would be GREAT
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